Men Communicate

Hey, guys, hi, everybody. This is Christopher. I don't even know where to start.

First of all, I'm sorry for disappearing and not saying anything. You're probably wondering why that happened. Let me explain.

1) I burned out. I wrote too much and too persistently, tried to think of a lot of things. I stayed up nights and gave myself completely to the Men Communicate project. But the further I got, the more I got lost. One day I woke up and decided that I wasn't going to write anything.

2) The Men Communicate project wasn't paying off. Yes, you might say, "Chris, what does money have to do with it? You're doing this for the soul, aren't you?" And I'll answer, "Yes and no."
The thing is, when you devote 6-8 hours every day to a project, and you don't make much money from it, the question in your head is, "What am I going to eat?" Yes, the second reason is that this project was not profitable for me.

We men will always have ups and downs. I had a fall. Be prepared for that, too.

Nevertheless, I am grateful to each and every one of you, everyone who has read my posts, who has commented, who has written to me personally and thanked me. I really appreciated it and still do. You guys, I really appreciate it, you're the best. I mean that sincerely.
There are even guys I've met and want to keep in touch with.

I would like to point out that the Men Communicate project will not continue. I will not delete the channel, you will always have access to the old posts.

That's all for now. Thanks again to each and every one of you. You and the Men Communicate project are forever in my heart❤️

With respect. Your friend. Chris.

Smart, rich, or strong - which one you're better off being. Part 2

▫️ Smart

The depth of intelligence and breadth of outlook determine a person's level of freedom. There are several kinds of freedoms, from physical freedom to economic or material freedom, but the main one is freedom of thought, which makes you you - a unique person, with your own views and opinions. In the absence of this freedom, one becomes an avatar, ruled by the media, the laws of the market, instincts, and fashion. It is quite possible to live with all this, often even better than these thinkers, but you will always be missing something, and boredom will become a regular companion. Such a state is also called inner emptiness, the very one that opposes the rich inner world and usually takes over.

The mind does not guarantee wealth, much less happiness. All it gives is an understanding of the world, the rules of the big game, which can be observed or broken. In addition, a sharp mind will hardly allow you to do something you do not like, rather, it will save you from the daily grind and find something to your liking. True, the degree of success here will depend on personal skills, it is possible, not particularly related to intelligence.

▫️Wealth

Do not hesitate to choose, if such a choice is worth it, and then you will deal with the rest. Being rich opens, if not all, then many doors and solves or gets rid of most problems. First of all, from the pressing ones, which is extremely important if only because it frees up a lot of free time for any other activity, from creative to physical, from intellectual to social. We could say that wealth is complete physical freedom, when you are able to be anywhere, as soon as possible exclusively of your own free will.

With respect, Your friend. Christopher.

Smart, rich, or strong - which one you're better off being. Part 1

It is best to have all three, but this is rare, bordering on unique. While wealth and strength can be acquired consciously and systematically, things are somewhat different with intelligence. Its presence or absence can be considered as chance, depending on many unpredictable factors, which a person does not choose himself.

In addition, having missed the moment in childhood, it is almost impossible to make up for later. The fact is that the lack of money or disgusting physical form you can feel and observe personally, daily and continuously. Lack of intellect is invisible, and the less of it, the wiser one thinks oneself to be.

On the other hand, mental acuity and, all the more so, physical strength fades with the years. It is a natural process, and there is no way to stop it, while wealth can be maintained and even increased at any age. One way or another, it is nice to have all these qualities, you can use them with pleasure, but how and in what order to get them?

▫️ The Power of

Here it's not only or not so much about the strength, as in "Mr. Universe," but rather about the overall physical condition of the body, which must be maintained. Otherwise you will get languish or fat, and in such a body there will be no place left for a healthy spirit, it will be replaced by laziness and indifference. It's simple, if a person does not care about his main tool, given in a single copy, for life, without the possibility of replacement, then what will he care about at all?

For the first 25-30 years the physical shell will serve faithfully, despite all your efforts. Then the warranty period passes, minor failures begin, you may not notice or not pay attention. The problems begin to accumulate and soon develop into a real crisis. Then the person begins to mend, take some medicines, go to the doctor. Only it is impossible to return to the former state of serenity and full capacity for work. The stronger or healthier your body, the stronger your spirit. Strength instills self-confidence, which cannot be bought with money or thought up with the mind.

With respect, Your friend. Christopher.

Why is it important to know how to say no? Part 2.

▫️To learn to say no, you save a lot of personal time. When you always owe everyone something, you don't have time for yourself. You only do what needs to be done urgently, and the rest of your time is spent with other people. This way of life makes it impossible to get to the next level, because all analysis and prediction is eliminated. It is very important to be able to spend time on yourself.

▫️Stop doing every request and you will keep the right to choose for yourself. Think of those fifty-year-old men in hypermarkets, who, like children, weaving behind his wife and comply with her every command. That's what the consequences are for the nice guys. The longer you live this way, the more submissive you become, because you're left with fewer independent decisions.

▫️ By learning to say no, you increase the value of your consent. When you help everyone, you become something of a support person. No one thinks about your feelings, your time, or your resources. Everyone only wants your help. At the same time, no one is considering your terms. But when you help selectively, it increases the value of your help and the reputation of those you help.

Therefore, the focus of attention, first of all, should always be on those people who are willing to accept you and without much benefit, who are themselves willing to give you value and will be sincerely grateful if you can help them. And then everyone else. With this approach, you will be able to filter your surroundings, keeping only reliable people, strengthening your character and being able to give much more to those who will deserve it.

With respect, Your friend. Christopher.

Why is it important to know how to say no? Part 1.

Saying "No" is such an indispensable skill in the allocation of one's resources that one simply can't do without it. The same nice-guy syndrome that so many people worry about greatly hinders them from reaching their potential. And all because people are afraid to say no. There's nothing wrong with rejection, though. On the contrary, it's even healthy!

▫️ By learning to say "No" you will strengthen your personal boundaries. If your personal boundaries are strong, people won't dare encroach on what is yours. The stronger your boundaries, the stronger your mentality. The stronger your mentality, the stronger your character. So if you aspire to courage, you need to build personal boundaries. Otherwise, those you would consider close to you will ride on your shoulders just fine.

▫️Stop feeling guilty about rejection, you'll boost your self-esteem. When you are a no-holds-barred person, there are many consumers around you who take advantage of that quality. Because of this, a false perception of relationships is formed. You begin to think that if you don't give of some value, you will remain unneeded by anyone. And low self-esteem becomes the reason why you start giving even more gratuitously.

With respect, Your friend. Christopher.

​​Why does a man need authority?

A man always needs internal reference points. Since childhood, boys are constantly associating themselves with someone. Borrowing someone else's images is one of the stages of the accumulation of personal competence. Ideal, of course, when the father becomes the authority. If he turns out to be wise and clever, then he can at a very early age instill in the child the necessary patterns of a strong personality with which it will be much easier to live.

But very often it happens that the father is either absent in the upbringing or absent in the child's life altogether. And then it turns into an independent job. And at what age a man begins to work through these patterns - it already depends on the circumstances, which will determine the authority. A man's way of life, views and behavior will often depend on the leaders that he will try to be like.

That is, if the man is led by bad examples, he is likely to hang around from coast to coast, wandering periodically in his own desires, goals, and needs. This can be the beginning of addictions as well as choosing the wrong interests in life. And this will be repeated until the man either finally burns out or meets on the way a strong mentor, who will become an inner guide.

And when we talk about authority, we do not mean flawless obedience to someone. Serving someone and learning from someone are not the same thing. Again, in terms of the rules of nature, this role is always held by the father, our first and foremost mentor. But life is multifaceted and there are situations when the father fails in this role and the need remains. And then we try to compensate for this emptiness through other people.

Mothers, sisters, grandmothers and other women in our lives will not cope with this role either. Women, because of their physiological characteristics, are very concerned about the safety of their children. And boys need the freedom of choice to make their own decisions. For the same reason, men need to learn to communicate with children, to be that inner guide and teacher for them. That way we can influence and lead society.

My second channel about your penis health: t.me/m_hhealth

With respect, Your friend. Christopher.

​​Don't try to change those who don't want to change.

The inner world of each of us is built on our experiences, which cannot but be unique. And this is often the reason for misperceiving someone else's worldview. It seems to us that what is normal for us is also normal for others. Therefore, when we care about a person, we try to help him or her, to direct him or her to a path that seems good to us. But this does not guarantee that the person will be better on this path.

There is no need to change those who are not ready to change. And it is important to realize that many people who complain about their current way of life don't need to change at all. They just want something new. For example, a person may work at a job that is a burden to him. He will complain every weekend about how bored he is with it, but he won't spend a single hour getting close to the possibility of leaving the place.

And he can sincerely say that he wants to do something of his own, but is forced to work because he has to somehow survive, pay the rent, etc. But to be honest, there are no such lingering periods in which it is impossible to find a few hours a week for something that can improve the quality of life. You can always adjust to the situation and come up with something. At any rate, it's better than just whining.

And this is where you can get into trouble - you'll try to help and end up on the outside. People who are not prepared to take decisive action are not prepared for the responsibility that comes with change. Consequently, if you make a mistake, it's your fault because you screwed up. And if you don't make a mistake and bring him to results, you're still to blame, because he doesn't know what to do next. You put him in a new situation, you're gonna have to deal with it.

Therefore, no matter how cynical and selfish it may sound, but the drowning man's salvation is the drowning man's business. There is no need to do the work for those who do not want to work. Such people, at a minimum, slow you down, at a maximum, drag you down. At the same time, it is not necessary to break the relationship with them. The main thing is not to try to change them through force. Otherwise, you will remain the enemy. It is better to look for like-minded people and exchange value with them.

My second channel about your penis health: t.me/m_hhealth

With respect, Your friend. Christopher.

​​15 hobbies that will help you develop and feel more confident. Part 3.

▫️ Coaching

A coach is a personal growth coach; a person who helps you achieve a life or professional goal. And this kind of coaching is very effective. You can take training courses to understand how, using coaching, to help yourself and those around you. Of course, it is unlikely to be a source of income (you need to devote a lot of time to it), but it's nice to know that your opinion is authoritative for friends and acquaintances.

▫️ Drawing

One of the most creative activities. And here you are free to choose from so many options! Pencils, crayons, pastels, watercolors, gouache, oil - the list can go on for a long time. Drawing calms, develops creative thinking, and trains perseverance.

You learn to draw beautifully and you can make your hobby profitable. Later you can meet these same amateurs, or even professionals, to participate in exhibitions, or retrain in a graphic designer, drawing is no longer on a canvas, and on the computer. In addition, with all the different styles you will definitely find one that suits your skills best.

▫️ Video

Maybe you like to make videos from trips and friendly get-togethers? A slightly better camera than your iPhone and video courses from the internet can help you improve your skills. What for? Even for a beautifully filmed and edited vacation video. If in this business you have found a talent - you can be sure that from now on you are the most welcome guest at any wedding and on any trip. And that's as close as you'll get to Naishuller.

My second channel about your penis health: t.me/m_hhealth

With respect, Your friend. Christopher.

​​15 hobbies that will help you develop and feel more confident. Part 2.

▫️ Photography

A male photographer is probably every girl's dream. And if your hands grow out of the right place, this hobby can quickly become a paying one. A bonus that will not be in any other item: for a walk with you girls will definitely agree with pleasure. And if you look at it more pragmatically - photography develops creativity, helps to express creativity, make a lot of interesting acquaintances and make good money.

▫️ Blogging

Well, what if you have something to say, and even more interesting to those around you. Choose a platform that is comfortable for you and make it happen! This can be a blog on Instagram, a channel in Telegram with at least a dozen more options. The main thing is your enthusiasm and ability to express your thoughts. From the pluses (and there are many) - possible popularity, acquaintances, connections, discounts, barter, buying advertising (if you gather a lot of subscribers) and a bunch of other ways to enrich your friends list and your wallet.

▫️ Travel

If you're stuck in one place or desperate for a new experience, get involved as a traveler. And it's okay if you have a 5/2 schedule. When planning a trip, count on the time from Friday night to Sunday night - there's plenty to see in those days, too.

Ask people who have been traveling for a long time for advice. They'll definitely suggest you track down cheap tickets or discounts. Thanks to airline promotions, you can fly to another country paying two, three, or sometimes four times less than usual for a ticket. And you can also stay with couchsurfers, who are people who are willing to put you up for free, for help around the house, or for an interesting conversation.

My second channel about your penis health: t.me/m_hhealth

With respect, Your friend. Christopher.

​​Hobbies that will help you develop and feel more confident

A hobby is not just something to kill time. A good hobby can help you improve yourself, make new interesting acquaintances, become more confident and improve your self-esteem. In general, here are some examples of what you can do in your free time, not only with pleasure, but also with benefit.

▫️ Boxing

It's probably hard to imagine a more masculine hobby. It combines strength exercises, self defense techniques, combat tactics, fitness, and cardio exercises. If you make boxing your hobby you can become confident in yourself and your strength even in the most difficult situations, strengthen your character and improve your physical strength. Yes, and this kind of martial arts can help you if suddenly you do not know where to discharge your bubbling energy or aggression.

▫️ Cycling

If you're in the mood to spend more time with your iron friend, why not walk him every day for at least half an hour? It's casual, interesting, and keeps you in shape. And you do not have to take part in competitions, bike rallies and various hikes - try to make your own route and pass it on time. An exciting bonus will be getting to know other cycling enthusiasts - together you can try your hand at long distances.

▫️ Climbing

Rock climbing is not only a sport, but also a great option for outdoor activities. And don't think that you have to go to the nature, somewhere in the mountains for such activities.

And maybe after a few lessons you will want to make rock climbing your profession. In any case, if you want to get your body in shape, develop your communication skills and dilute your routine with travel, this option is for you.

My second channel about your penis health: t.me/m_hhealth

With respect, Your friend. Christopher.

​​How not to appear an idiot in a conversation with a girl. Part 4.

▫️ Compliment closer to the finale

Girls love compliments. They like to hear them, but, on the other hand, there is no girl who likes constant and intrusive compliments. Quantity balances the quality of the compliment - this, you might say, the laws of the market. In our experience, it is best to present a compliment to her friend only at the end of the conversation - at a time when you are going to finish the conversation. This is worth doing for two reasons:

1) the girl will be sincerely grateful for the compliment, if she really wanted it, and you will definitely see her positive reaction;

2) If the girl accepts the compliment coldly, you will know for sure that it is not worth spending too much time on her.

▫️ Finish the conversation

We don't always want to end a conversation, but we have to. You can't go overboard with friendliness. You need to be clear about when you want to end the conversation, otherwise it can last too long and the only thing the girl will feel at the end is incredible relief. It is much better if your girlfriend will want to talk more, but you will not give her that opportunity - let her save that desire for the next time. Then the re-meeting will be inevitable and welcome on her part.

My second channel about your penis health: t.me/m_hhealth

With respect, Your friend. Christopher.

​​How not to appear an idiot in a conversation with a girl. Part 3.

▫️ Don't filter your thoughts

Everyone has a filter in their head that inhibits speech in unfamiliar situations. You may think that this or that thought she just won't like, or she will be shocked by what you said, or she will be bored. But when it comes to a woman you barely know, that kind of filter is a barrier to a meaningful conversation. Turn it off for a while, otherwise you'll only say the most neutral and trivial things. As a result you won't be remembered and the conversation will be empty.

Be honest with the girl and say what you think is right. Let her know the real you at the very start. Then you'll have an easier time communicating - she'll quickly become a friend, and then you can count on more if you want to.

▫️ Don't be afraid of the silence.

You place too much importance on pauses in conversation. You shouldn't be afraid of them. Journalists use them on purpose during interviews to let their interviewee speak - people are uncomfortable with silence, so they prefer to fill the silence with conversation. Silence is your helper. If in the moment of silence you just look at the woman and start waiting, not panicking, then the woman will open up - let her talk.

Make the quiet moments work to your advantage.

My second channel about your penis health: t.me/m_hhealth

With respect, Your friend. Christopher.

​​How not to show up as an idiot in a conversation with a girl. Part 2.

▫️ Talk about yourself.

It doesn't have to be a monologue and it shouldn't take much time. Just talk about your interests, your job, something funny that happened to you last week - there shouldn't be too much information. A little bio will be enough. That said, keep your focus on the girl, not yourself, when you tell your story. Even better, if you insert information about yourself in small portions throughout the conversation. For example, a girl talks about liking dogs, and you can tell her that you have one that you walk every day - offer to join that walk next time.

▫️ Use "conversational potential."

If a girl talks to you, she definitely has something to tell you. Such a conversation can only come to a standstill because of your foolishness, and yet you could have used its resource. For example, if your girlfriend tells you that she's tired, she works too much, she needs a vacation, then you can certainly roll your eyes and wait until her complaints are over, but it's better to listen and ask her about the problems at work. Yes, girls can often complain, but it is their complaints that can serve as a launching pad for a normal and meaningful conversation on a variety of topics. You just have to use the potential of these complaints in the right way.

My second channel about your penis health: t.me/m_hhealth

With respect, Your friend. Christopher.

​​How not to appear an idiot in a conversation with a girl

Talking to a girl is not a job, an obligation or an inevitability. But it is also not an entertainment, especially for those who do not know how to communicate with the opposite sex, and we found out from the questions sent to the editorial board, there are many of them. It is better to treat this skill as a craft. The first few times you'll get it crooked, incomprehensible, ridiculous. But with each new conversation, you'll get much better at understanding women and much better at finding the keys to them that will open the doors you want.

▫️ Know how to continue the conversation

Once you've started talking, know how to continue - this will save you from uncomfortable pauses. In practice, this means that if you decide to talk about the latest Danny DeVito movie, you have to know how to continue the conversation. What's especially important is that you have to be sure that your date is interested. If you see that the girl is bored, then try to change the subject - do it quickly, before the thread of conversation disappears.

▫️ Ask the right questions

Most of the chat guides you find on the internet say that you should ask a girl as many questions as possible to make her feel interested in you. But that's not quite right. There have to be questions, but they have to be right and interesting questions, otherwise you'll come across as overly intrusive and boring. A person who asks a question after every sentence is an annoying person.

My second channel about your penis health: t.me/m_hhealth

With respect, Your friend. Christopher.

​Why you should never sacrifice your happiness, even for your loved ones. Part 3.

▫️ You risk taking the position of a victim

By constantly giving up your needs, desires, and goals to keep your family and friends happy, you may take the position of victim for a long time. Instead of solving your problems, getting your life in order, and taking responsibility for your emotions, you will stomp around in the same place. You'll convince yourself that you spent all your resources on other people because you couldn't do otherwise, and now you have to put up with the inconvenience.

But here's food for thought: no one asked you to give up your happiness, which means that you alone are to blame for the consequences of your decision. Stop shifting the responsibility for your life onto someone else. Gather your strength in your fist and finally start putting things in order. The next time you want to make someone happy, be kind enough to make yourself happy first.

▫️ People might start taking what you do for granted.

The more often you go against yourself and your interests in the hope that it will make your loved one happier, the less appreciative it makes the person responsible for your actions. Seriously, you may be able to surprise a person one day and make them feel admiration and even a rush of love and respect for you, but it will be an isolated incident. People very quickly begin to take your actions for granted. Soon, your behavior is so accustomed to, that they themselves begin to demand that you make decisions not in your favor.

My second channel about your penis health: t.me/m_hhealth

With respect, Your friend. Christopher.

​Why you should never sacrifice your happiness, even for your loved ones. Part 2.

▫️ A grown man is responsible for himself

Remember one rule: Adults are always responsible for themselves. You can't just take it upon yourself to blame someone else for your unhappiness. Maybe instead of shifting responsibility, you should try to change something in your life. Don't take that opportunity away from others, either. Give them plenty to complain about, help them give you advice if they want it, but don't ever ask for help.

Your parents, your siblings, your friends, your loved one - their happiness does not depend on you and your actions. If they are not happy with something, they have the right to change it. If they don't want to change it themselves, they don't need to. There is no point in making up a lot of excuses for your loved ones, and it is certainly not worth the sacrifice to make them happy.

▫️ You have to think about yourself first.

You can argue with this statement all you want, but everyone should think about themselves first, and only after that about those around them. This is a healthy egoism, the basis of normal self-esteem, a necessary condition for achieving harmony with oneself.

As soon as you begin to put other people's needs and interests first, they begin to take advantage of you. You spend an enormous amount of resources on making someone else happy. At the same time, you burn out pretty quickly, because you're not doing anything pleasing to yourself. And consequently, you do not draw strength and positive emotions.

My second channel about your penis health: t.me/m_hhealth

With respect, Your friend. Christopher.

​Why you should never sacrifice your happiness, even for your loved ones.

You may strive to help everyone around you, sincerely believing that this makes you a good person. But the harsh truth is that your help is often meaningless, and in some cases even harmful to you.

If you too often solve the problems of those around you by wanting to make them happy, it's time for you to slow down. The habit of rushing to everyone's rescue and taking responsibility for someone else's moral state is detrimental to your own life. Especially if you don't know your limits.

▫️ You can't make a person happy.

The most basic reason why you shouldn't waste your resources on fixing someone else's life is that you won't succeed anyway. No one but the person themselves can make them happy. You can give as much advice as you want about what to do in a particular situation, help solve his problems, offer him your time, money, moral and physical support, but it will not lead to the desired result. The man himself must want to stop feeling sorry for himself and do something to make himself feel better.

You have probably already tried many times to help your loved ones. Most of the time their inaction irritates you: you don't understand why they don't change anything if they are not happy with their lives. So here's a thought for you to think about: maybe they are comfortable in the place and with the problems they have now. They keep voicing their dissatisfaction, but deep down they don't want to change things. No amount of trying to get things moving is going to succeed unless the person wants to initiate change themselves.

My second channel about your penis health: t.me/m_hhealth

With respect, Your friend. Christopher.

​What topics to communicate with girls so as not to get into the friend zone. Chapter 2

What to avoid

Don't use phrases like "suggest a topic that interests you" or "let's talk about whatever you want." Many girls, despite modern equality, expect decisive action from the guy, preferring to give him the initiative - at least in terms of choosing topics for conversation.

And again: no nerdiness or complaining. Also, don't be too pushy and don't show your interest. As the classic said, the less we like a woman, the more she likes us. Chances are, you're making one of the common mistakes - running after girls like a dog, wagging your tail vigorously to be encouraged with a "bone". Do not, unless you want to hear back "good boy" and get a friendly pat on the head.

And you don't have to be such a bad boy. But in your case, it's probably far from that, because rude males don't get sent to the friendzone. They either get sent away or go to bed with them. You, on the other hand, are probably too soft, so it's worth adding more "male" to the conversation, but don't overdo it. Let the interlocutor see that you are a man who has everything in moderation - both intelligence and masculinity.

And work on your appearance.

It's good that you're not shy to get acquainted, but in addition to confidence, you have to have something that will interest the girl. We're not soothsayers and we can't tell from your answer whether you're handsome or an average guy. If the latter, you should work on your appearance to become more attractive.

My second channel about your penis health: t.me/m_hhealth

With respect, Your friend. Christopher.

​What topics to communicate with girls in order not to fall into the friendzone.

Hi! First of all, figure out what you specifically want. It's either a relationship or sex. Your next steps depend on that. For finding a partner for sex, dating apps and services are good. But for a relationship, they're not always a good option. You need a different approach. After all, there is a huge chasm between one-time sex and a strong relationship.

Apps and the street won't help you find a relationship

If you're looking for a relationship, dating apps aren't likely to help because they're full of trolls and fakes. They're not really good for sex, either, because the real girls in them are pampered with attention, and the average guy won't be interested in them. With "Instagram" is the same problem, because all the pretty girls there just drown in likes and comments.

How to conduct a conversation in order to interest a girl

As for topics, they can be anything - most importantly, exclude from your communication style complaints about your life, about being lonely and not given to you, and other things that put pressure on pity. Girls don't like that, and it triggers more of a maternal instinct than a desire to learn more about you as a man. It's a direct path to friendzone, even if you're handsome.

The main thing is to be natural, but in no way be a nerd or a goody-goody boy who will be used as a shirt to "cry". And no sucking up and leaning on girls about sex, otherwise your partner will think that all you want from her is to get into her underpants, and you don't think of anything else, thinking she's just a piece of meat.

Communicate on topics that interest you both. Perhaps you both like German rock or are into astronomy? So keep developing the topic - then the communication will be interesting, and she will start to look at you as an interlocutor with whom you can talk about any topic.

My second channel about your penis health: t.me/m_hhealth

With respect, Your friend. Christopher.

​How to be confident when talking to a girl you like? Part 4.

▫️ Talk to her in the company of mutual friends and acquaintances

If you're about to start a conversation with a girl you like but you feel shy or stuck around her, try doing it in the company of mutual friends. This greatly reduces stress levels, especially since the people around you will serve as a kind of safety net in case you have an awkward pause. Suggest everyone get together and start a conversation with the girl in a relaxed atmosphere. You'll feel much more confident than you would one-on-one with her.

▫️ Ask her personally about things that interest you

Don't try to stalk her friends or text her friends on social media with questions about what she likes. That's not cute, and it's more like stalking and a sick crush. This kind of behavior can scare a girl away, and make her avoid your company. If you're interested in something, it's better to ask her about it herself: first, she will be pleased, and secondly, you will appear in her eyes as a confident guy.

My second channel about your penis health: t.me/m_hhealth

With respect, Your friend. Christopher.