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I think social media has made this difference even easier to miss. Knowledge has become another aesthetic. Books become decorations before they become companions. Quotes travel farther than reflection. Reading lists grow faster than understanding. There is nothing wrong with sharing what you’re learning. I love seeing people excited about ideas. The strange part begins when looking thoughtful becomes more important than actually thinking.

You could call it “hobbyamory”: Laidlaw is among a growing number of singles emphasising multiple hobbies over dating.

Rather than spending hours swiping and messaging on apps, these singles are investing their time, energy and disposable income in passions such as rock climbing, cake decorating and cyanotype printmaking.

They say their social calendars are packed, their friend groups are expanding, and their lives feel rich, with or without a romantic partner.

Young people are prioritising their well-being and happiness in a way that other generations have not, said Alexandra Solomon, a clinical psychologist and adjunct professor at Northwestern University.