could i be asexual?

ive been thinking on this for a little bit but i need opinions since i cant make decisions on my own apparently 💔

my friend tells me often about her experiences of kissing her boyfriend and him touching her in sensual ways and such, but the more she talks about it, the less appealing it is to me to want to experience. i want to have a first kiss, but i dont even understand how u would initiate, which makes it even less appealing to me. I do, however, LOVE cuddling and all those small intimate acts, but ive never kissed anyone so i cant honestly reflect on how that makes me feel.

i read smut and have even tried watching, and i do get aroused, but when i act on it, i feel virtually nothing, i feel like something is wrong with me because ive tried a few different ways but each time barely anything happens, ill shiver but thats about as far as it goes before i give up.

i dont know, im just really confused since i find people attractive but when i look at the.. anatomy.. on guys and girls it doesnt really invoke anything in me.

can someone help me out, could i be asexual?

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