Have I lost my value as a woman? Am I asexual?

Here is my story: I am 23 years old and have never had a boyfriend. I grew up in an oil camp in the Middle East—it was a town within the camp—and my father never allowed me to date. At 22, I decided to leave; I moved out on my own and became independent. A few months later, I met a guy online; it turned out we had a mutual friend. We talked for a month and a half and exchanged photos; he told me all sorts of things and said he wanted a relationship with me. He lived four hours away from my city.

One day, he surprised me by saying he was in town for work. He was 25. When I met him, I felt a connection and a good rapport, but I didn't feel any romantic attraction. I was curious about sex, though; I had never kissed anyone. We went out about six or seven times, always as friends—no kissing or anything like that. The last time I saw him, he invited me to a drive-in movie. Halfway through the film, he asked me to come back to his hotel. I gave him a flat "NO." He told me he wanted to kiss me and be intimate right there. I agreed. We moved to the back seat; it was my first kiss—it lasted four or five minutes and was neither good nor bad. He stopped kissing me and put on a condom. When he moved closer to me, I felt total revulsion. He made a couple of moves looking for sex, but I stopped him.

There was no penetration or sexual activity. I got out of the car and drove home; he didn't say a word. The next day, I sent him a message: "Don't contact me again; I don't want to see you anymore." That was the end of it; a year has passed since then. I am still a virgin, but I wonder: have I lost my value as a woman? If I tell a future boyfriend this story, will he consider me a serious partner, or will he think I'm crazy? HELP!

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