Why do we force it?

Hard on deals.

Hard on seeking attention.

Hard on even choosing our responsibilities.

If you have this "always tries to force" character, then cool.

Skip this post.

If not, what are you doing?

Does this put you in Heaven or Hell?

If neither, please, don't cut your genuine "you" off.

More attention.

More money.

More status.

More respect.

Yes, all these shiny things are good, but

Once-broken glass will never be the same.

Don't break your self.

Don't force it, please.

Speaking of who we are,

If who we are hurts ourselves, then we need to change.

How do we know if our self is a problem?

When we are not moving in the right direction.

We ourselves can say yes, but what if not?

How do we know this?

By listening to the constructive feedback of our mentors and changing.

What if our mentors are wrong?

Then we have the wrong mentors.

How do we know if that mentor is the right one?

They are now where we want to be or going there.

What if they are dead?

Then do they have any students left?

We grab their hands tight.

OK, but which direction is right?

The one that takes us to where we want to be.

We keep moving. We keep asking.

We think on your feet.

We don't force it.

We just let it go.

Take care of yourself.

@temursolief