What phones are you using?

I have been wanting a new phone for a while now and I have my eyes on the Fairphone with e/OS. What drew me in is the prospect of being able to easily replace parts of the phone as well as the alternative OS. But before I buy anything expensive I figured I would ask for advice first.

I am looking for something that is de-Googled and I refuse to buy Apple products. I value (in descending order of importance) everyday functionality (calendar, maps, music etc.), privacy, compatibility with common apps, battery life and sturdiness. Though I am aware that "privacy" and "smartphone" do not exactly go hand in hand.

What alternative phone do you guys recommend? Are there mobile Linux distros (other than Android) that are worth looking into? I heard Graphene isn't bad but I have no experience either way.
Thoughts on the Fairphone?

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