The first thing to understand is parallelism has nothing to do with concurrency. Concurrency is concerned with nondeterministic composition of programs (or their components). Parallelism is concerned with asymptotic efficiency of programs with deterministic behavior. Concurrency is all about managing the unmanageable: events arrive for reasons beyond our control, and we must respond to them. A user clicks a mouse, the window manager must respond, even though the display is demanding attention. Such situations are inherently nondeterministic, but we also employ pro forma nondeterminism in a deterministic setting by pretending that components signal events in an arbitrary order, and that we must respond to them as they arise. Nondeterministic composition is a powerful program structuring idea. Parallelism, on the other hand, is all about dependencies among the subcomputations of a deterministic computation.
Robert Harper,
Parallellism is Not Concurrency