Want a sexlife

Hi there,

For those who are ace in a relationship with a partner non-ace or ace with sometimes desires and libido :

Do you ever wish you could satisfy your partner, do something for her/him ?
Or do you wish you were normal and had a normal sexlife ?

For more details :
My partner and i are ace but different kind i suppose.
Im demi-sapio, have low sexual attraction for my partner, but have real sex drives from time to time.
My partner has very low libido (maybe because of meds) and "intellectual sexual attraction" (he desires me, thinks im hot hot and would love to touch me but wont).

Our sexual intimacy has been nonexistant for over a year, but we had a "normal" sexlife when we met and for half a year. And it makes us sad ..
We found out we see this really differently and are interested to know how other ace think.

He wishes he were normal. He wishes we had a normal sex life.

I wish i could do something to activate his libido from time to time, to release him. I wish i could do something even not on him, that could count for him as "sex", so that he can think he has a sexlife. I wish i could make him happy.

Those are two really different ways to think, and wonder how other ace think.
And voila :)

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