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How do I ask my partner to stop masturbting in bed next to me while I’m trying to sleep?

Title kind of says it all. I’m (27FTM) somewhere on the asexual spectrum, not sexually attracted to many people, but have been before. I am NOT sexually attracted to my partner (30enby/MTF).

They started masturbating in bed next to me while I’m attempting to sleep (I have insomnia and am a SUPER Light sleeper). It makes me extremely uncomfortable and I KNOW she’s doing it bc I can hear the vibrator.

I truly don’t know how to bring it up, and I have a history of sexual assault, so it makes me feel even more uncomfortable and at times, I feel unsafe.

Any tips/advice?

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