𝒻or dear @rb1it

Being in a relationship with him as a woman means experiencing a partner whose chaotic, joke-cracking public persona as Stray Kids' mood-maker gives way to a deeply introspective and emotionally sensitive soul in private, someone who openly admits that his ideal type is a person who can be the "big spoon" for him and shower him with affection and warm embraces because beneath the confident performer is a young man who genuinely craves tenderness and being held, and it means being with someone who processes his emotions and vulnerabilities through songwriting rather than direct confrontation, a habit he has carried since his trainee days when he felt like an "alien" trying to blend in and used music to organize his thoughts and connect with others, and it means navigating the complexities of a partner who is intensely observant and emotionally intelligent when he manages to quiet his own overthinking mind but who can also be guarded and reserved in group settings, allowing others to speak while he chooses his words purposefully and insightfully, all while knowing that when he does open up, he does so with raw honesty about love being a consuming and essential force, as he poured into tracks like volcano that describe relationships as mentally, physically, and emotionally consuming yet impossible to live without.