What’s your take on people who prefer staying silent instead of explaining how they feel even when it’s clearly affecting their relationships or making things harder for them in the long run? #Ebbflow

#Ebbflow. does anyone have ideas for indonesian dishes that are commonly served during lebaran-style gatherings but still easy enough to cook at home? should i go for rendang or opor ayam? or… is ayam goreng kremes a good option? i’m having a family gathering today and i’m in charge of the food

#Ebbflow. how do you deal with a friend who acts like things are resolved after you make up, but then turns around and insults you, calls you nasty things and threatens to spread your past just to control you? like at that point it doesn’t feel like reconciliation brah, it just feels unsafe to even be around them 😓

#ebbflow what’s the actual strategy for exploring places like kyoto or osaka in peak summer without melting halfway through the day? do locals just adapt or am i missing something obvious here? the heat is unbearable, feel like i’m being slow-cooked out here 😭