Why are these relatives so jealous from someone's success they are literally trying to ruin my life.

So the thing is 8-9 days back, my father's elder brother came to our home to visit us from other city in a family function. His son also gave JEE back in 2024 and is currently in VIT Bhopal CSE. And he asked me about my mains and advance rank and all and which college I'm taking. To which I told him that I'll be taking BITS and right now I'm alloted BE Chemical at Pilani Campus and maybe in further iterations I'll get a better branch.

Now when I was in my room, he was discussing things with my father. And guess what, he literally manipulated my father into thinking that, "Only CSE mein future hai and kisi bhi college se CSE kara do BITS Pilani ki agar Electrical bhi milegi usse bhi better hai mere bete ki 99%tile thi mains mein but usne VIT Bhopal mein CSE li aur uska badhiya ho rha hai aur BITS bhi private college hai blah blah blah", like stfu nobody ain't taking VIT Bhopu CSE at 99%tile.

And the worst thing is my father was manipulated easily (ngl my father is manipulated easily by others what they say). And now since that day he started convincing me to take CSE in any college because now he thinks CSE in any random college is even >> BITS Pilani Electrical. I'm trying to explain him that even BITS lower branches are miles away than VIT Vellore CSE. My maternal uncle who completed his BTech from IIT Madras and many of his colleagues are either IITians or BITSians he also explained to my father that he is making the biggest mistake ever by making me leave BITS for CSE at any random college when I can get a decent branch in BITS but my father is not even listening to a fuckin IITian and believes some jealous boomer.

And today I had a big fight with him over that. I tried to show him all the stats of VIT CSE and BITS but he is not trying to listen to me. Now he is convinced for CSE at any random college and instead of choosing any random college, I'll choose to take a drop over some random college just for CSE. And I don't want to take a drop leaving BITS. What to do it's like he has done black magic on my father he's not listening to anyone but his brother. And my mother don't have the spine to talk to him about it even after knowing how good BITS is. If anyone has a solution, plz tell me what to do in this situation I don't want to end up in a random college just for CSE instead I'll choose to take a drop but at the same time I don't want to leave BITS seat.

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